Thursday, April 2, 2015

Sexual Morality


Sexual Morality

Throughout the course of history there have been numerous controversial matters. One of the issues that has the most double standard is sexual morality. Religion has been the corner stone for centuries dictating what is moral and what is also considered immoral. The issue with religion and society being the corner stone of what is considered moral is that males were the ones in charge of making rules, therefore the rules are skewed in the favor of men. One of the biggest issues with sexual morality is that there was a double standard and there still is a double standard. As a society today pretend that we don’t really care about sexual morality of a woman having sexual relationships with random partners but the bottom line is that if a female writes a post on social media that she sleeps with random partners daily and a male posted the same situation on social media, the female will be called a variety of derogatory terms while the male will be praised for his sexual prowess.



The contemporary issue of sexual morality did not affect my personal principles, or the social principle anarchism. Sexual morality in the anarchist society is interpreted differently than that of a communist society. In an anarchist society people are free of any social norms has to which they should live by. In an anarchist society the individuals who live in each community makes the rules, there are no churches, no marriages, no state, therefore they follow what they believe is moral and just. As appose to the communist society that is governed by social norms and state which dictate what is moral and just. Therefore, I think that it would be likely that sexual morality is very conservative, restricting individuals especially women to one partner. As for my personal principle which were to be respectful, polite, and helpful to everyone but most importantly to the elderly. In reference to my personal principles, if the persons involved with the sexual acts are respectful to each other’s wishes it would be moral to have sex with as many people as the person desires for as long as they want because there is mutual respect. As with the example of having relations with animals it wouldn't be moral according to the personal principles that I have indicated because they is not a way for an animal to be respectful and polite to the human involved by virtue of the fact that the animal cannot communicate consent therefore it is indeed a violation of one of the parties involved. Thinking about my personal principles in reference to the sexual morality helped me to differentiate between what I thought was moral and what is not.

Alan Goldman’s philosophy of sex I believe would be the closest to my personal ideologies because he makes excellent point regarding sex and what is it. As Goldman stated when a person is attracted to another person’s personality they do not generally want to continue to speak to the individual, they usual desire physical contact with this person.  This physical attract can result in the person feeling very comfortable and much closer to person then before. The desire for physical contact also follows Taoism in the sense that Taoism says to essentially partake in activities that make one truly happy. Therefore if having sex with one hundred people makes the person happy by all mean they should “get their freak on”. Nonetheless I can say that they are many flaws in his paper because mankind cannot be painted in black and white, we are far too complex beings.

in sum, i believe sexual morality should be a personal choice that should not be judged by others.


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